CHAPTER 7:25-31 MARRIAGE, SINGLENESS, & DEVOTION TO CHRIST: CONCERNING VIRGINS Part 4
Paul in the previous section exhorted believers to find their rest in Christ because of his call on their lives, because of the rescue from God’s wrath. And now that we are the people of God, it is that which defines us, not physical and emotional pain which one day God will eradicate.
Paul now addresses virgins. He starts again with the theme of whether or not Christ had previously spoken on the topic and says:
25 Now concerning virgins I have no command of the Lord, but I give an opinion as one who by the mercy of the Lord is trustworthy.
Paul here addresses virgins. He begins by saying, “I have no command of the Lord” meaning that Christ has not previously spoken on the subject (compare verse 10), but now Paul is giving apostolic insight into the matter and says:
26 I think then that this is good in view of the present distress,
What is he saying here? What’s the present distress? We are not certain but we know that he is speaking through the Spirit of God and says: “that it is good for a man to remain as he is.
27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you released from a wife? Do not seek a wife.
Now this is a difficult passage to accept especially in our culture where a person’s happiness does not take into consideration the good of another nor their honor in the pursuit of personal fulfillment.
Paul is saying, if you are married “bound”, don’t look for a divorce “released”. If you are divorced “released”, don’t look for another to get married.
28 But if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have trouble in this life, and I am trying to spare you.
This verse contextually refers to the earlier stipulations in the chapter for divorce and remarriage that Paul addresses. The apostle’s pastoral concern for the Corinthians well-being is captured by “I am trying to spare you” referring to marriage (which is good but has very challenging aspects to it).
Paul continues his address with the theme of time and the form of this world (v.29) which is very brief and is passing away. That is, what we value now in some measure is not what awaits us in the future like “marriage” or “sex” (vv.30-31). It seems that Paul is wanting to encourage undistracted devotion to Christ regardless of our social status (vv.32-35). Undistracted devotion, that’s a massive issue today where distractions are not only ubiquitous but lethal and Americans are drowning in it (me included).
Paul is pointing believers to joy in Christ in ways that are unimaginable to many of us because the kingdom of God is a hazy concept. He ends the chapter again by giving the boundaries of when one can marry: only after the spouse is dead and only with another believer (vv.36-40).
Personal Conclusion: the thoughts expressed by Paul are difficult for many believers to bear and are often ignored precisely because we don’t trust that God knows best and actually is out for completing our joy in Him.
What will we believers do when difficult sayings like those covered in this chapter challenge our devotion to Christ? May our disposition be as Mary’s was, “Behold the bond servant of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word” (Lk.1:38). To follow Christ in this life means that his word has final place in our decisions, attitudes and lifestyles.
Lord, there are many difficult issues Paul addresses in this chapter, and we trust they are for our good because only you do all things well. Grant to us a willing heart to follow you regardless of our lot in life (short as it may be) so that when it’s all been said and done we can with one voice say, “To God be the glory great things he has done” (SDG)