In the wake of the Supreme Court’s decision regarding marriage, there will be mixed emotions and thoughts—based on your worldview. I’m glad we live in a country where we can talk, debate, and even agree to disagree—hopefully agreeably, and not with incivility (I.e. name calling, etc.).
I know many in the gay community are elated with the court’s decision but there are those within the community that are not. I know many think this issue can only be viewed through scripture and tradition, but reason and experience can also be good tutors. I also know that historically Christians have been swayed by the culture, rather than impacting it. Many are the reasons, but two in particular are huge. There’s the unfortunate ignorance of the historic Christian faith and abandoning the life of the mind as a way to love God. These two reasons produce souls without conviction who often reject Christianity’s truth claims (whether conscious or not).
Provided are two links that can help remedy the malady. The first one is by Philosopher Douglas Groothuis’. In his article, he challenges Christians in favor of same sex marriage to logically argue their case. Among the values of this exercise is to replace the “parroting” of what’s in vogue with the presentation of a reasoned position. Link http://douglasgroothuis.com/2015/06/27/a-challenge-to-christians-who-support-same-sex-marriage/
Secondly, Stand to Reason has helpful links to help our understanding of the issue(s) which also provide strategies for civil discussion regarding the marriage decision. Link http://www.str.org/blog/more-resources-for-understanding-and-discussing-the-marriage-decision#.VZAf_flViko
ATTQ encourages the reader to consider these sites, and welcomes dialogue in the comment section concerning your thoughts, worries or even doubts about this issue.
 (Accessed 6/28/2015): http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-22758434 “The gay people against gay marriage” by Tom Geoghegan, BBC News, Washington http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2013/03/9432/ “I’m Gay and I Oppose Same-Sex Marriage” by Doug Mainwaring
 By reason I mean “unaided reason” which comes under the rubric of general revelation—knowledge all people possess concerning God and morals. It’s this ability to reason that makes it possible for humans created in God’s image to make proper, true distinctions—judgments of reality.
 (Accessed 6/28/2015) http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2013/03/9432/ “I’m Gay and I Oppose Same-Sex Marriage” by Doug Mainwaring. Scripture teaches that God has spoken through two books: The book of nature (Ps.19:1-6; Rom.1:18-21) known as general revelation and the book of redemption called particular revelation (Ps.19:7-14). The former gives the general knowledge of God, the latter the requisite redemptive/salvific knowledge of God. Too often Christians neglect the latter book to make their case and actually miss out on a good opportunity for dialogue and persuasion contra Paul (Acts 17). This issue calls for both “books” to be considered at least by professing Christians.